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so two of my friends and i share the same godfather. one of the girls also happens to be joey's ex-girlfriend. we have happened to work around this so i thought. anyway, i called joan, the one that i still talk to, and asked her what she was getting our godfather for christmas. she didn't call me back for 2 days. so i called her again. she then proceeded to leave me a message stating that she and jenn (joey's ex) had gotten him tickets to cirque de soleil. so i called her back. usually when we get him presents like that, all three of us are the ones that give it to him so he can spend time with all three of us. apparently this time, i wasn't included. so i called her back and i say "thanks for the invite" she knew immediately what i was talking about. she was like "i'm sorry." she said that jenn had purchased the tickets. i asked if jenn had asked her about it before she had purchased the tickets. she said yes. i asked her if she had thought that maybe this would have been a good opportunity for us to all get together with our godfather. and she again said yes. she said she had mentioned it to jenn, but jenn was adamant about just getting 3 tickets. i said to look at the whole picture. our godfather is going to think that i didn't want to join them for their group gift and it's going to be weird. joan realized as she was apologizing profusely. then she proceeded to say that jenn and i should just get over the whole thing. i said that i did nothing wrong here (besides going out with her ex - but she broke up with him because she was already going out with another guy, but that's a whole other story that you all already know). she said you haven't invited her to anything. i disagreed. i invited her to my past two birthdays but she didn't show. she didn't have any other response. but then she did say that they - joey and jenn - should get over it. i agreed. she said that joey should be thanking jenn because if she didn't break up with him, he would never have gotten with me. anyway, after the conversation with me, joan called jenn and told her this. jenn said she felt bad too (i was like, really though? if she felt that bad, she would have recognized it before purchasing the tickets). anyway, we're going to try harder for his bday.