if you're thinking of marrying ...

So after we saw Gomez, he gave us this list of questions for anyone contemplating marriage. I thought they were really cool, so I decided to share.

1. Is the person your best friend or at least becoming so?
2. Aside from sex, do you enjoy each other?
3. Is there chemistry between the two of you?
4. Does the person have a number of good friends and at least one very close friend of the same sex?
5. How does the person treat others?
6. What problems do the two of you have now? And what inner voice of doubt, if any, are you suppressing?
7. How often do you fight?
8. Do you share values? the best part of this answer is: "Love conquers all pre-maritally. Not post." Love that answer.
9. Do you miss the person when you are not together?
10. Is the person unhappy?
11. How much of your love is dependent on the sex you are having?
12. What do people you respect think of the person that you're considering marrying?

I thought they were in interesting group of questions. The answers are long so if anyone is really interested in the answers, let me know and I'll post. but for now, they're just questions to think about.